Discover how YOU can break free of your perfectionism, procrastination, and people pleasing… so you can have “win in your career” beyond what you’ve imagined, and have the peace of mind that only comes from being comfortable in your own skin.
Are you over 30 yet still fearful of what other people think about you?
Do you hold yourself back from speaking up in your relationships at work or at home?
Do you want to be the ‘go to person’ or the ‘get it done’ person, but you’re still not that productive?
Do you still waste A LOT of time obsessing over how you did things wrong or taking things personally?
If you are talented but haven’t reached the career success or ease in personal relationships you’ve always wanted, there is a reason for it. It’s not because you are lazy, it’s not because you don’t deserve next level success, it’s not because other people are better than you.
It’s simply because your confidence level is interfering.
Most personal development programs are cheerleaders. They may inspire you or motivate you, but they don’t give you tools to finally become that person you’ve wanted to be.
“I’ve read every book and attended every training on this subject and I’ve never seen a program that drills right into how your personal psychology translates into your effectiveness in the outside world. You learn things about your confidence that help you in meetings, help you be more productive, help you make more money, and help you deal with people in your personal life. Having confidence in stressful situations helped me lower my blood pressure without medication too!”
Tom, participant May 2011
The Confidence at the Core program is based on my research at Harvard Medical School in which what I learned shows you the fastest way to become secure in yourself and happy with who you are. Even after the very first recording, you won’t waste time anymore worrying what other people think or getting down about setbacks. You will have plenty of time and energy to become that ‘go to’ person or the person who speaks up.
Program participants regularly save hours and days worth of time by staying focused and moving forward (rather than wasting hours and days getting into a knot about situations). Just listen to them describe how their days go each week on the audios!
Are you ready to stop putting things off and start living up to your potential?
I’m Dr. Sharon Melnick and I’ve helped thousands of businesspeople develop fast and lasting confidence. I’ve taught these skills to businesspeople in companies such as Oracle, GE, Deloitte, Freddie Mac, Visiting Nurse’s Service NY, IBM, and have been invited back multiple times for organizations such as the American Management Association, National Association of Female Executives, Women Presidents Organization, Success Television, SelfGrowth.com, and many others.
The Confidence at the Core program gives you recordings of 5 power-packed teaching sessions, additional trainings on how to get rid of the ‘negative’ voice in your head, AND a personal consult with me (Dr. Sharon Melnick).
Here’s What You Will Get:
Week 1: From Approval-Seeking to Accomplished
Get tools to:
- Speak up instead of keeping your mouth shut or softening your message
- Be someone who takes action and is confident (instead of trying to please)
- Stop looking to other people to reassure you that you are doing a good job and see yourself as doing your job well
- Be someone who is bold and knows how to take risks and succeed
“After seeing myself in the pattern you described, I used your tools to stop putting everyone else’s interests ahead of mine. I said “No More” to people pleasing and selling myself short. Already I’ve freed up several hours a week, and I made more money in the last 7 days than in the last 5 months. I didn’t have the confidence at the beginning, but the confidence is coming to me now. Everything you said worked – I’ve never taken action like this in my life!!”
JD Coons, Lawyer
“I learned that I do not have to get others approval in order to get from where I am to where I want to be. The direct path made a huge difference. I did a lot of things I wouldn’t have been able to do otherwise, like write a book, become a public speaker. All of which has opened up a lot of client opportunities I wouldn’t have had otherwise. The success I’ve had is beyond what was expected.“
Larry Lane, Lane Architecture
“I didn’t realize how much of my energy was wasting time getting involved in other people’s situations, trying to make them approve of me
, and maybe getting angry at them when really it wasn’t my problem to deal with them. Now I’m focusing what I need to do. The increase in what I’ve been getting done in my week is INCREDIBLE. I stopped chatting with people, stopped surfing on the computer, stopped procrastinating, stopped questioning can I do it? The best thing is that already this weekend I got the outcome I wanted, a new client!
Jewel Buff, Prudential Douglas Elliman
“The mental shift gave me a humongous leap forward in my career
trajectory…I now make use of the credibility I’ve built with others. ‘I am who I am’ and I’m finally ok with that!
Orla N, Oracle Corporation
“The first lesson changed my life, turned my personality upside down in a good way. so that everyday i see success stories. I look at people in the eye and I say what I mean to them, I feel much more confident, I feel relaxed, I don’t feel nervous as I had in the past. Everything is better for me. I enjoy my life, I feel happy, I don’t have any more noisy thoughts, like “How I am going to approach this person or impress that person?” Now I just do a great job. Now I’m not seeking confidence from other people, now I do my job well and confidence comes to me!
E.R. current program participant
Week 2: From Self Critical to Self Assured
Get tools to:
- Stay focused and move forward instead of being caught up in knots about situations
- Get your confidence back in a down economy and reinvent yourself to succeed in difficult times
- Eliminate critical or doubting thoughts so you can have peace of mind
- Know how to quickly put an end to beating yourself up and questioning yourself
- Get surges of energy instead of being bogged down by comparing yourself and holding yourself back
“I used to wake in the morning to negative voices that would set up how my day would go. After your course, now they are just not there.”
Sarah Rosen, Marketing Consultant
“I no longer agonize
over every little thing that is said. I don’t care that much anymore about what other people think, but in a good way. All that worrying, what a waste! Its so liberating
to not give a crap. Now I just put my effort into my own plans and behaviors to get where I want to go. I no longer tolerate people who want to intrude on my time. I flat out don’t fret over what I can’t control. I now get home from work an hour earlier than everyday last month, AND I just inked my biggest deal ever — in the midst of a serious financial crisis.
Paul David, Investment Banker
Week 3: From Personalizing to Powerful
Get tools to:
- Stay poised instead of taking things personally and getting reactive (this will make people respect you a lot more)
- Take feedback and learn from it, instead of obsessing about what other people think
- Start being the one in control of your life instead of letting events determine your day
- Have more personal time by getting things done instead of obsessing about situations
“I’ve been busier than ever at work and focusing only on the important things. My business is already up 80% for the year. Things that would derail me for days and sometimes weeks now roll off my back in minutes. Most importantly, I now have an indescribable faith in myself.”
Craig L. Meadows, CLU, CLTC, ChFC Man. Dir., Northwestern Mutual
“It brings a level of peace and confidence that changes the way you do business. People respect me more…people want to work with me. It’s a much more comfortable place to be, I look forward to coming to work, it’s a lot of fun now. I let things roll off my back and I’ve earned a seat at the table.”
Week 4: Confidence at the Core in Your Career
Get tools to:
- Learn how to quickly make more money in your business
- See yourself as a leader so other people will see you as a leader
- Be strong, confident and decisive in your career
- Finally have tools to get over your procrastination
- Stop taking on too much yourself instead of delegating
- Stick to your Guns when Interacting with someone Intimidating
- Believe in your abilities and know how to take risks without fear of failure
- Be a ‘go to’ person and a ‘get it done’ person
“I went from ‘good’ to ‘great’ – and fast!
I’ve never been more streamlined. I’m doing the things I’ve set out to do. My pipeline is more robust than it has been in 14 years. My business is already up 40%
this year. Now I can concentrate on the things I enjoy. I had a lot of faith in the things you said, and when I applied them, they absolutely worked. This hit the bullseye!”
Peter Cleary, V.P., UBS Financial Services
“I built a new inner voice and made practical changes in my behavior. I used to take much more blame on myself, worry about what other people thought, and think that I wasn’t quite good enough.
Now it’s a whole different picture: I started the most successful service line in our region. I developed a very influential position in the firm and have the most confidence I’ve ever had in my whole professional career!
Karen V., Partner, PriceWaterhouseCoopers
“Your process is life altering at the foundation, and the transformation happens fast.
It shows how you’ve developed an adaptation to external circumstances that affects every area of your life. Then you get a chest of tools to move forward and be different. It makes you much more effective in your job, reduces your stress, and brings you happiness and satisfaction in your life. As a leader I became ‘more deliberate, more decisive, more effective, more constructive, and more self trusting.’ And I’ve been having more fun! Your process cuts through the noise and clutter. It’s not a band-aid, everything has changed for me and the changes get better over time. The ROI is huge!”
Ranaan Miller, CTO, Sionex Corp.
“Since learning your strategies I have been working feverishly and I have been really focused. My boss keeps thanking me and just move me into a role I LOVE.
When we first met you asked me what my ideal day would be like, and now I live that kind of day most days and I’ve been to the gym more times in the last 2 weeks than I’ve ever been. I’ve spent more time with my kids since than in years. I feel solid to the core. Its been life changing, really.”
Beverly S., Capital One
Week 5: Core Confidence in Personal Relationships
Get tools to:
- Detach from long-time frustration that a family member doesn’t give you love or respect you deserve
- Feel worthy of others’ love and romantic interest
- Know how to be heard and earn others’ respect
- Be more present and find more happiness in personal relationships
“I shifted my whole belief system
, from who I thought I was, all the negative, ‘not enough’ thoughts to a clean slate. It was totally freeing
, so much more than a typical career coaching. It was a construction project – we took down the roadblocks piece by piece to clear the way for me – to get this next career move that I’m wildly excited about, to improve the way I manage other people, and to grow my relationship leaps and bounds to the point of marriage
. I learned so much about myself – this had a HUGE positive impact on my life.”
Beth R., VP, NurseFinders
“Now I don’t worry what other people think and I make my own decisions. Before I would consult with different people instead of consulting with myself, just spin my wheels. Now I listen to myself more, know what I want. I really trust myself. Now I know I am enough, I can depend on myself and my spiritual connection to guide me, and really do what I feel authentically instead of doing things for other people. It’s profound!”
“I saw an immediate difference in things being easier for me in my job and in my personal life. The degree of confidence I feel after the course is significant.”
In addition to these 5 powerful program recordings, you will receive the following bonuses:
Bonus #1: 30-minute Private Consult with Dr. Sharon Melnick ($250 value)
Get 30 minutes one-on-one with Dr. Melnick to get the help you need to overcome any obstacle.
Bonus #2: 1 Q & A call with Dr. Melnick ($500 Value)
Ask Dr. Melnick your questions about the Confidence to the Core system and get answers tailored to your personal situation.
Bonus #3: 45-minute Audio Training ($97 value)
The moment you register you will be sent an audio training showing you how to be in charge of your 60,000 thoughts a day. Audio Training on How to Take Charge of your Mind: Eliminate 90% of Doubting, Worried, Blaming or Self-Critical Thoughts
Bonus #4: “2 for 1″ ($497 value)
As soon as you register for the program we will also offer the ‘young person’ of your choice to have access to all the skills. This way your young person will never have to say “where were you 20 years ago” because they are learning these essential skills now!
Total Value of Bonuses: $1344
“This course was well worth every penny I spent on it. The return was unbelievable!”
Premium Level Program
- The full 5-week Confidence at the Core program as outlined above ($997 value)
- 3 private one-hour consultations with Dr. Melnick ($1500 value)
- The Doubt Demolisher: 2-hours to a “New Lease on Life”
This is the training you’ve been waiting for: many clients tell me this is the ‘single most powerful conversation I have ever had’. You will achieve liberation from your doubts and ease into self-acceptance once and for all.[IMPORTANT NOTE: I guarantee: You never learned this in therapy. These are my “secret sauce” techniques, developed from my research at Harvard Medical School.]
No matter where you are now, you’ll finally accept who you are and feel comfortable in your own skin. You’ll never wonder if you’re “good enough” again because you’ll lock the door behind you on the doubts you’ve had. From now on you will know your worth all the way to your core.
You’ll start putting your energy toward things that get you moving in that direction quickly – instead of wasting your precious resources getting others to think well of you. This is the turning point, where you start approaching your life in the ‘new way’. That’s why so many people describe this exercise as providing them with a ‘new lease on life’.
This is Dr. Melnick’s Signature 2-hour Reset Training ($1000 value).
Premium Level Program Bonuses
Fast Action Bonus: Access to the Productivity Mindset program($500 value), Four (4) 90-minute videos/audios which guarantee you will accomplish more priority work and give you an hour extra quality time with your family every day.
Total value ($3,997)
Program investment: $1,997
Special Registration for the first 10 people: $1497 (or 3 easy payments of $550)
Premium Level Registration:
“I can’t speak highly enough about this course. The information is amazing and was life-changing for me, I learned how to go beyond all my old ways and look at life differently. You come to accept yourself and finally have the power to use who you are and what you have effectively. You know how to deal with things and difficult people and get immediately back on track towards what you want. My sales performance increased noticeably and my relationships with my boss, as well as with family members, have dramatically improved.”
Sal Padula, Berkeley Global Ltd
“I have turbo-charged my professional life I let go of trying to get other people’s approval and now focus on what’s best for the organization. I contribute more and my self evaluation is positive not negative. Its like I was driving a clunky car that doesn’t turn well, and now I’ve stepped into Porsche; the performance is just superior.
I have been pulled aside for recognition by colleagues, and complimented by the President of my organization. I have been able to tee up a more meaningful role in my organization and the next stage of my career. I eliminated behaviors that would have hurt my professional advancement and now act consistent with my nomination to a position of greater leadership.
Her portfolio of techniques is very powerful; in fact, much more powerful than I had originally hoped. I was skeptical at the beginning when she said I could make changes quickly, after I had tried for so long to make improvements based on others’ techniques. What we discussed were things I had heard about and known intellectually, but Sharon was able to breakthrough to me emotionally. She helped me find and identify the internal “glass wall” that had been holding me back. Now I am confident and act with clarity and purpose.
Its been unbelievable and its been worth every penny; no, even much much more!”
“A better, deeper, faster mousetrap than I’ve come across in 20 years of this work…What you do is transformational versus incremental. Some coaches are like trainers. They will make sure you do your reps and help you make incremental gains. But you can’t get your game to the next level by simply getting better at your current swing. Like the great golfers, you have to break your swing down and then rebuild it. Your new swing fits you better and you play with greater ease and better scores. Your process is the same for being a leader – it makes you more authentic, more powerful, and more influential.”
Mark Bonchek, CEO Tapestry Networks (2006)
“You learn where your doubts come from and how you might be living on automatic pilot, then get clear on your path forward. Events used to dictate how things went for me, now I feel powerful and in charge of my own life. I now walk through the office with my chest out, having the confidence to know that I deserve being in my position. She’s helped me not continue behaviors of the past and to get to new circumstances, fast! What I got is positive, its actionable, and it works. This was a life changing experience.”
“You are a miracle worker”
Money Back Guarantee
I am confident that my methods will work to give you Confidence at the Core. Go ahead and enroll in the program and if after you listen to the first class you don’t think this program will help you make huge progress towards your goals, I will refund your money before the second recording session.
Just listen to the audios at your convenience and practice the step-by-step tools. Use the tools in every meeting you go to and in every personal interaction you have. Then watch as miraculously things get better for you – you start to reach your yearly income goals within weeks, you step up into the leader you’ve wanted to be, and you say goodbye to feeling nervous or not speaking up in your personal relationships.